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Spill the Water

Vision | Mission | Values​

Goal

To cultivate "relating through aliveness" as a practice worth learning.

Question

What kind of relational dance moves might "spill the water" and breathe life into you?

Understanding

Spill the Water offers a practice and texture of relating, and learning is not the outcome, but the method of staying grounded when certainty fails. Like surfers reading water, humans can attune to rhythm, feel the sun, acknowledge danger, and ride the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual waves without needing to conquer them.

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Skills

Iteration: Falling in love with the reset button. We commit to a rhythm of showing up, learning by doing, and practicing sustainable creativity without a need for perfection.

Holy Work: Showing up day-by-day, brick-by-brick, taking the smallest step possible, and imagining the next into being.

Atelier: Being human as a work of creative non-fiction while crafting and committing to the practice of storytelling and conversation. 

Spill the Water: Prioritizing the "is that so" of life and accepting the inevitable spilling, mistake, or misunderstanding. It's about the texture of trying and the freedom to fail spectacularly, knowing that the next is found at the edges of letting go.

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Kairos, Curios, and Columns of Otherwise
Curriculum by Design

One: The Call to Wonder

  • Goal: Cultivate openness to possibility.

  • Question: What am I curious about?

  • Understanding: A life oriented toward "storytelling about aliveness" can counter despair and self-destruction.

Two: The Compass

  • Goal: Develop an orientation without certainty.

  • Question: How does my character know where to turn?

  • Understanding: Storytelling can function as a compass when fixed answers fail.

Three: CAT the Coddiwompler

  • Goal: To introduce a curiosity-based self-assessment, not an evaluation.

  • Question: What will your answers be? 

  • Understanding: Not all meaningful questions require correct answers to be useful.​

Four: Captain Brooke

  • Goal: Reframe humans as dynamic, adaptive systems.

  • Question: How am I assembled and how do I move?

  • Understanding: Humans are not broken; they are complex, moving systems responding to conditions.

Five: Alfie the Prisoner

  • Goal: Explore the cost of choosing against the grain.

  • Question: What do I want to do that may create friction or confrontation?

  • Understanding: Acting from curiosity disrupts existing ecosystems and relationships.

Six: No Questions Asked

  • Goal: Question the limits of assumption.

  • Question: How do people decide if they already know?

  • Understanding: Premature certainty often blocks new stories from being told.

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Seven: Two Columns of Shit

  • Goal: Reveal the mechanics of good storytelling.

  • Question: What pressures generate the simple and obvious?

  • Understanding: Humans often require significant friction before becoming meaningfully open.

Eight: CAT the Artist

  • Goal: Practice observing curiosity in action.

  • Question: What do I notice about her responses?

  • Understanding: Certain questions generate energy, engagement, and aliveness.

Nine: The Captain’s Quarters

  • Goal: Reframe the mundane through attention.

  • Question: How are ordinary stories built, piece by piece?

  • Understanding: Daily life becomes meaningful when noticed with care.

Ten: The Captain’s Vow

  • Goal: Confront self-betrayal and responsibility.

  • Question: Where do I need to stand up to myself?

  • Understanding: There is a relationship between circumstances and conviction.

Eleven: Simple and Obvious

  • Goal: Clarify experience through consequence.

  • Question: Am I willing to feel the pain of Column Two?

  • Understanding: Much of our decision-making relies on outdated or inaccurate internal data.

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Twelve: CAT the Storyteller

  • Goal: Continue observing curiosity patterns.

  • Question: What do I notice about her responses now?

  • Understanding: Curiosity reveals itself through moments of vitality and resonance.

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Thirteen: The Captain’s Vessel

  • Goal: Explore movement as alignment.

  • Question: How can humans move in rhythm with natural cycles?

  • Understanding: Human beings move according to prioritized internal and external rhythms.

Fourteen: Full of Light

  • Goal: Examine redemption without erasure.

  • Question: How do we move forward from past behavior?

  • Understanding: Redemption is possible, and it requires sustained effort.

Fifteen: A Witness

  • Goal: Practice presence in devastation.

  • Question: What does it mean to hold suffering without fixing it?

  • Understanding: Not all problems are solved through action; some require witness.

Sixteen: An Academic’s Shit List

  • Goal: Re-enchant storytelling through risk.

  • Question: What surprised me when I had something new to say?

  • Understanding: When risk and reward align, learning can be transformational.

Seventeen: CAT the Strategist

  • Goal: Observe curiosity as a planning force.

  • Question: What do her responses reveal about direction and desire?

  • Understanding: Curiosity can guide strategy when answers are unclear.

Eighteen: The Captain’s Daemons

  • Goal: Name distractions and inner antagonists.

  • Question: What pulls me away from the present moment?

  • Understanding: Presence often requires deliberate practice.

Nineteen: Alfie the Wolfhound

  • Goal: Explore rebuilding after harm.

  • Question: What obstacles stand between me and repair?

  • Understanding: Harm is not the only possible outcome.

Twenty: A Forgiveness Map

  • Goal: Reframe forgiveness as orientation.

  • Question: What is forgiveness, really?

  • Understanding: Forgiveness can sound and feel like gratitude.

Twenty-One: CAT the Seeker

  • Goal: Observe curiosity as longing.

  • Question: What do her responses suggest she is seeking?

  • Understanding: Curiosity points to awesome stories.

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Twenty-Two: The Captain’s Otherwise

  • Goal: Establish practice through repetition.

  • Question: What story am I willing to live and tell repeatedly?

  • Understanding: The life we want emerges from repeated habits.

Twenty-Three: The Socratic Cat

  • Goal: Demonstrate storytelling's transformative power.

  • Question: What stories can I tell now?

  • Understanding: Learning is a fundamental ingredient to good storytelling.

Twenty-Four: Preview of Season Two

  • Goal: Set the stage for storytellers. 

  • Question: What am I curious about?

  • Understanding: Great storytelling is ultimately self-directed.

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